
I know we haven't been updating our blog a ton, but we just haven't had much to post since we're just in the waiting mode. But, I thought I'd go ahead and write something in honor of today marking our 6 months of being on the waiting list for our referral. Also in honor of today, I wore this beautiful necklace that my friend Katie Brabson gave me. She has an awesome blog so check it out! Anyway, my necklace says "Selam" (pronounced SELL-OM (kind of like the meat)) which in the Ethiopian language of Amharic (pronounced AM-HAR (as in CAR)-IC (as in the ic in RICK)) is a traditional greeting and it means "Peace".
When we first started this process we thought we'd be waiting for around 3 months, and at the most, 5 months for our referral. Well, now we are at 6 months of being on the waiting list and you know what I feel??? PEACE. Yep, peace. I keep hearing things like "You must be so anxious especially since this is your first child!" Anxious? No. Excited? YES!! We are so excited but what makes this process even more exciting and oh so cool is that we truly believe that God is in control! I'm not gonna say we (really, I) haven't had a few moments of weakness, but that's life. We naturally want to control things that are going on in our lives. But then, I just have to step back and remember that most things I try to control end up getting all messed up and when I step aside and let God work out the details, it is good!! I didn't say it was easy, but it is good. So... happy 6 months to us! God knows what He's doing!
Selam!!
Candy
P.S. I called in for our 6 month update and was told we should receive our referral within the next month or 2!! Yay!
5 comments:
OOOoooooo--so excited for you guys to get THE call! Love the Selam necklace!
it was very refreshing to hear someone at peace in their wait. Waiting is hard and I can't wait to hear the wonderful news once it comes. Congrats on waiting patiently for 6 months :)
C-U-T-E necklace. I'm a sucker for all thing Ethiopia these days!
Isn't God so good to give us peace in the wait? We are nearly upon our 4 month mark, and we too, feel total peace. After all, God is the one who set this whole thing in motion, and he will be the one to say "when". We are very content to wait for his timing (most days :))
Happy 6th Month Wait.
Each day means one day closer right?
What a great great great day it will be to celebrate your referral then to celebrate you having your sweet baby home!
Aw, you wore your necklace! Sweet!
The wait will seem as but a day when your child is home. I think it is a lot like how women forget the pain of labor. I remember looking at Samuel Mussie and thinking "What wait? There has always only been you and me and us..."
Still praying for you and waiting with peaceful anticipation for news!
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